Now, in middle or high school, you may be more interested in boys than you previously have been. This is a totally normal thing.
Referring back to my post about friendship troubles, it is good to find other friends - whether this be a girl or boy.
Say you get close to a boy. And now you sit next to him at lunch, and talk to him more, and hang out with him more than these other so called friends.
These friends may be even more distant to you now that you have chosen to be with a guy. They may appear to be jealous, or mad. But this guy you can tell anything too, and talking to others about your life may seem like a good idea. Go for it. If you trust him he can be your best friend. There is no rules saying your best friend has to be of the same gender. (Besides it doesn't appear that guys spread gossip as much as girls.)
Say some of your friends are happy for you, and will listen to all of your boy drama, and try to give you good advice. Some of your friends will listen, even though they might not want too, and comfort you. And others will flat out ignore all you have to say about guys. This is normal. People mature at different times.
It's good to maintain friendships, but be careful who you talk too about things. You don't want rumors to spread, and relationships to crumble.
What I'm trying to get across here is that although boys may seem like a good distraction, make sure they don't get in the way of other relationships, and other things including schoolwork (which i believe to be most important.)
Referring back to my post about friendship troubles, it is good to find other friends - whether this be a girl or boy.
Say you get close to a boy. And now you sit next to him at lunch, and talk to him more, and hang out with him more than these other so called friends.
These friends may be even more distant to you now that you have chosen to be with a guy. They may appear to be jealous, or mad. But this guy you can tell anything too, and talking to others about your life may seem like a good idea. Go for it. If you trust him he can be your best friend. There is no rules saying your best friend has to be of the same gender. (Besides it doesn't appear that guys spread gossip as much as girls.)
Say some of your friends are happy for you, and will listen to all of your boy drama, and try to give you good advice. Some of your friends will listen, even though they might not want too, and comfort you. And others will flat out ignore all you have to say about guys. This is normal. People mature at different times.
It's good to maintain friendships, but be careful who you talk too about things. You don't want rumors to spread, and relationships to crumble.
What I'm trying to get across here is that although boys may seem like a good distraction, make sure they don't get in the way of other relationships, and other things including schoolwork (which i believe to be most important.)